He’s not fully potty-trained during nap time yet… What if it happens at school ?

Your child’s first day of  preschool is just around the corner, and you know that accidents can still happen during nap time. It’s completely normal for young children to have occasional mishaps. But what happens if your child has an accident at school?

Many parents worry about this, but there’s no need to panic! Potty training is not something that can be forced. A child needs to be both physiologically and psychologically ready before they can fully control their bladder. Every child progresses at their own pace, and at three years old—the typical age for starting preschool—some children may still struggle with staying dry, especially during naps when they are relaxed and less aware of their body’s signals.

What Does the Law Say About Potty Training in Schools?

First and foremost, it’s important to note that there is no law requiring children to be fully potty-trained before starting school. Teachers cannot legally refuse a child who occasionally has accidents. Classroom assistants ( ATSEM) are there to support children in their learning, including helping them through the potty-training process.

Helpful Tips for Parents:

• Stay calm and reassuring – Don’t make a big deal out of accidents, as stress can impact your child’s progress.
• Encourage and celebrate small wins – Praise your child for their improvements to build confidence.
• Communicate with teachers and ATSEM – Let them know your child’s situation so they can provide support.
• Pack a change of clothes and wipes – Having extra clothes in their backpack ensures they stay comfortable.
• Trust the school’s potty-training routines – Schools often have structured bathroom breaks before nap time.
• Maintain consistency at home – Try to align your home routine with school habits for better progress.
• Pay attention to setbacks – If accidents suddenly increase, it could signal stress or a new change in your child’s life. Talk to them to understand what’s going on.

Every child develops at their own pace, and accidents are a normal part of the process. With patience, support, and open communication, this stage will pass naturally.

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